Extracted from 'Our Daily Bread'
Our Children Are Watching
Reading and Meditation
These are the commands, decrees and laws the Lord your God directed me to teach you to observe in the land that you are crossing the Jordan to possess, so that you your children and their children after them may fear the LORD your God as long as you live be keeping all his decrees and commands that I give you, and so that you may enjoy long life. Hear, O Israel, and be careful to obey so that it may go well with you flowing with milk and honey, just as the LORD, the God of your fathers, promised you.
Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one. Love the LORD our God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.
When the LORD your God brings you into the land he wore to your fathers, to Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, to give you - a land with large, flourishing cities you did not build, houses filled with all kinds of good things you did not provide, wells you did not dig, and vineyards and olive groves you did not plant - then when you eat and are satisfied, be careful that you do not forget the LORD, who brought you our of Egypt, our of the land of slavery.
Fear the LORD your God, serve him only and take your oaths in his name. Do not follow other gods, the gods of the peoples around you; for the LORD your God, who is among you, is a jealous God and his anger will burn against you, and he will destroy you from the face of the land. Do not test the LORD your God as you did at Massah. Be sure to keep the commands of the LORD your God and stipulations and decrees he has given you. Do what is right and good in the LORD's sight, so that it may go well with you and you may go in and take over the good land that LORD promised on oath to your forefathers, thrusting out all your enemies before you, as the LORD said. (Deuteronomy 6:1-19)
It can be disturbing to realize that our children often mirror the way we speak and act. I remember being concerned about the way my son angrily lashed out at his sister when she was annoying him. My wife gently pointed out to me that his behavior was a reflection of mine.
A few weeks later, I caught myself lashing out at my son when I was frustrated. Through my wife's encouragement, I apologized to him for my behavior and told him I would learn to treat him with more respect. In the months that followed, I noticed that my son's attitude toward his sister also improved.
Children do not learn to love and obey God only by what we say. They also learn by watching what we do. We are to teach also learn by watching what we do. We are to teach them constantly about God and His Word as we "sit in [our] house, when [we] walk by the way. when [we] lie down, and when [we] rise up" (Deuteronomy 6:7). Along with what we say to our children, we need to set an example by our love and obedience to the Lord.
We can't be perfect parents, but our children must see our desire to please the Lord. And when we fall short, they need to see our repentance. We teach them by both what we say and what we do. - Albert Lee
You're teaching a lesson each day that you live;
Your actions are blazing a trail
That children will follow for good or for ill;
You can help them or cause them to fail. - Bosch
A godly parent is a child's best guide to God
Extracted from Every Day with Jesus by Selwyn Hughes
Today!
Reading and Meditation
Two other men, both criminals, were also led out with him to be execute. When they came to the place called the Skull, there they crucified him, along with the criminals - one on his right, the other on his left. Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing." And they divided up his clothes by casting lots.
The people stood watching, and the rulers even sneered at him. They said, "He saved others; let him save himself if he is the Christ of God, the Chosen One."
The soldiers also came up and mocked him. They offered him wine vinegar and said, "If you are the king of Jews, save yourself."
There was a written notice above him, which read: THIS IS THE KING OF THE JEWS.
One of the criminals who hung there hurled insults at him: "Aren't you the Christ? Save yourself and us!"
But the other criminal rebuked him. "Don't you fear God," he said, "since you are under the same sentence? We are punished justly, for we are getting what our deeds deserve. But this man has done nothing wrong."
Then he said, "Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom."
Jesus answered him, "I tell you the truth, today you will be with me in paradise." (Luke 23:32-43)
Now we move to our Lord's second cry from the cross: 'Today you will be with me in paradise' (v.43). How amazing is the thought that one of Christ's last acts before He died was to snatch a soul from eternal death and promise him a future with Him in heaven.
Picture the scene. At Calvary - the Place of the Skull - Jesus is hanging in agony on the cross with a thief on either side of Him. Since executions were popular with the masses, crowds of people are watching the. Among them, we can assume, and those who just a short time before cried, 'Crucify him!' (v.21). The noise of jeers fills the air. The soldiers, the chief priests and teachers of the law and the mob are hurling insults at Jesus. One of the thieves joins in. 'Aren't you the Christ?' he sneers. 'Save yourself and us! (v.39). The other thief stops this flow of abuse by saying, 'Don't you even fear God when you are dying? We deserve to die for our evil deeds, but this man hasn't done one thing wrong' (vv.40-41, TLB). Then he pleads, 'Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom' (v.42).
This thief shows us just what is needed in order to be saved: the realisation of who Jesus is and an awareness that we have done wrong. That the dying thief should have recognised Jesus as God's Messiah in that situation of shame and humiliation is astonishing. Yet he did. Significantly, he declared his belief that he was guilty and deserved punishment and that Jesus was suffering as One who completely innocent. And this amazing faith in Jesus was awarded.
Over the next few days we shall think a little more about what the promise Jesus made to the thief teaches us about salvation, and rejoice in the wonder of it.
Lord Jesus, thank You that You give salvation to everyone who acknowledges their guilt and has faith in You, no matter what they have done in the past. Give me, I pray, the opportunity to share this good news with someone today. Amen.