18. One step at a time

To Angela Tan Yan Shan
I know that you are out of reach and we couldn't get you too. I also know that you do check out blog once in a blue moon. I really hope that you see this.

Maine and I worries about you almost everyday. Everytime we meet out/call each other, there was never a time you were not mention. You know how worried we are for you don't you? We really do not want you to live your life like that, though we know it's your choice, but you do know we care, far more than him does.

Frankly speaking, we never wanted you to be with that guy, he can't give you happiness but pain. Even us as a friend, we could not bear to see you tears (at least if you do, we'll cry with you), and it hurt us seeing you like that. I always wanted all my friends to be happy as I believe everyone deserve to be love. Don't throw away your happiness. YOU CAN BE LOVE TOO.

Love is not about taking charge of your partner's life, but to bring joy to them, to understand them. I don't see that happening to you, instead, you are slowly drifting a part from your friends and families, that's too much of a control. You are a sensible girl my dear and you should know what's right and what's wrong. Though people always say, love is blind, but it doesn't mean that you have to really love blindly till the extend that even when he abuse you, you still give in. By acting this way, you are only hurting yourself and those people around you who cares for you.

Honey, I just want you to know, we all cares for you and loves you way more than that guy would ever love. We really hope you would make a right decision for yourself and your little one. He's not the one for you my dear. Just to let you know if you have forgotten. We(Maine and I) will always be here for you, anytime, anywhere, just give us a call. Even if you do not, visit your mom often, don't hurt her anymore.